You’re Engaged! Now What?
- Tammy Mills
- Aug 2
- 2 min read
First of all—congratulations! You’re engaged! Whether the proposal was a grand event or an intimate moment, this is the beginning of a beautiful new chapter. So what comes next? Before you dive headfirst into planning your big day, here are a few things to keep in mind to make the most of this exciting season of your life.
1. Celebrate the Moment
Before you start thinking about venues, dresses, or guest lists, just be engaged. Take a breath. Let it sink in. This is a once-in-a-lifetime moment, and it deserves to be celebrated without pressure or distractions. Plan a special date night, take a walk in your favorite spot, or just cozy up together and talk about how it all happened. Whatever brings you joy—do that. You’ve just said “yes” to forever. That’s certainly worth a toast (or two)!
2. Share the News with Loved Ones
When you're ready, start spreading the joy! Begin with your inner circle—your parents, siblings, and closest friends. Telling them in person or with a phone call adds a personal touch. Once your VIPs are in the loop, feel free to share with a wider circle and post your news on social media. It’s your moment—share it your way.
3. Insure the Ring
It might not be the most romantic task on the list, but it’s an important one. Engagement rings are a meaningful investment, so take the time to get it properly insured. Whether it’s lost, stolen, or damaged, you’ll want peace of mind knowing it’s protected.
4. Start the Conversation
Now’s the time to dream a little. Sit down with your fiancé and talk about what kind of wedding you both envision. Big or small? Backyard celebration or destination escape? What’s your budget? What season feels right? These early conversations help lay the groundwork and ensure you're both on the same page before the planning begins.
5. Consider Engagement Photos
Engagement photos are more than just beautiful pictures—they capture the energy and joy of this unique time in your life. Plus, they’re great for save-the-dates, your wedding website, or simply framing for your home. Choose a photographer whose style you love and have fun with it!
In Summary
Being newly engaged is such a special time, and there's no need to rush through it. Savor the moment, share the joy, and take things one step at a time. You don’t have to have it all figured out right away. This is your story—write it at your own pace.
Need help with the next steps? That’s where I come in. Whether you're planning a simple celebration or something more elaborate, I’m here to help you focus on what really matters—getting married your way.
Congratulations again—and let the adventure begin!
BONUS READING: A little something extra!
If you’re anything like me, once you start reading wedding blogs, it’s hard to stop. So here’s your permission slip to keep going! Check out the latest posts from these brilliant wedding vendors I’m happy to collaborate with this month:
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