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How to Get Married Fast in Virginia

  • Writer: Tammy Mills
    Tammy Mills
  • Feb 18
  • 2 min read


A No-Stress Mini Guide for Elopements, Military Couples & Simple Ceremonies

 

If your goal is legal, simple, and fast, Virginia is one of the easiest states to get married in.

·      No waiting period

·      No residency requirement

·      No pressure to make it a “big wedding”

 

This guide walks you through the exact steps to be legally married in Virginia — without the overwhelm.

 

 

Step 1: Get Your Virginia Marriage License

 You and your partner must apply together at any Virginia Circuit Court Clerk’s Office.

 

What to bring:

         •        Valid photo ID (driver’s license or passport)

         •        Social Security numbers (card not required)

         •        Payment for the license fee ($30 at time of posting)

 

Good to know:

         •        No blood test

         •        No waiting period

         •        License is issued the same day

 

⏱ Time required: 15–30 minutes


 

Step 2: Know the License Rules (Important)

         •        Your license is valid for 60 days

         •        You can get married anywhere in Virginia

         •        Your officiant must be authorized by the court

 

Once you have the license in hand, you’re legally cleared to marry.

 

 

Step 3: Choose an Authorized Officiant

 Virginia requires that your officiant be court-authorized.

 

This can be:

         •        A Marriage Commissioner

         •        A minister approved by the court

 

Please note: A friend or family member cannot legally officiate unless approved by the court in advance.

 

If speed matters, choosing a licensed Marriage Commissioner is the fastest route.


 

Step 4: Decide Where Your Ceremony Will Happen



 Your ceremony can be:



         •        At a private location

         •        At a small chapel

         •        Outdoors

         •        At a venue

         •        Even in your living room

 



Virginia does not require witnesses. This means you can truly keep it simple.

 

 Step 5: Have the Ceremony

 Your ceremony can be:

         •        5 minutes or 30

         •        Traditional or non-traditional

         •        With vows or without

 

The only legal requirement is that you:

         •        State your intent to marry

         •        Are pronounced legally married

 

Everything else is optional.


 

Step 6: License Is Filed (You’re Married!)

 After the ceremony:

         •        Your officiant files the completed license with the court

         •        The court records your marriage

         •        You can request certified copies for:

                  •        Name change

                  •        Military records

                  •        Insurance

                  •        Legal documentation

 

Once it’s filed — you’re officially married.

 


Common Reasons Couples Choose This Route

         •        Military timelines

         •        Insurance or benefits

         •        Private, meaningful moments

         •        Avoiding wedding pressure

         •        “We just want to be married” energy

 

All are valid. All are welcome.

 

Want This Done Without Stress?

 

As a Virginia Marriage Commissioner & Wedding Planner, I help couples:

         •        Get legally married quickly

         •        Have a calm, meaningful ceremony

         •        Skip the pressure and expectations

 

✨ Simple ceremonies. Clear guidance. No judgement.

 

📍 I am available for elopements & mini ceremonies in Virginia. Contact me if you have questions or want to talk through your options.



757.344.9091

 
 
 

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